As traditional conception, we understand that the way of being we have cannot change. When we say for example: my MOM so, is super responsible or as I am shy, I can’t get or given the age that I am, I can not. Today I want to share with you a renewed vision of what it means to be human and how can explain himself through the language used to think and speak (conversations maintained with himself and with others). From ontological coaching started from one of the most important principles of the ontology of language which reads as follows: while we act according to how we are also are according to how we act. The action generates the being that we are. Notes the power that is in this principle? Normally we assume the following statement I am so.
Then of thinking or saying this statement, becomes a chain of automatic thoughts like the following: I am as well. Since I’m so, I’m not going to change. As not I can change, do bother me try? I declare that I will not do anything. Results? Everything remains the same. While there are essentials in our special way of being, are sometimes blind to the new possibilities we can generate from a change of thought, which could lead us to change our reality. We often say: this is the reality or I am a realist, then… Well, we cannot deny that there is an environment that surrounds us prepared in a certain way. I encourage you to think about that, whatever it is the way that circumstances arise in your life, you esgrimas the power to decide how you want to interpret that reality that surrounds you to act consequently. In no time I’m talking about magic or that you can change your environment with a snap of fingers, not.